Saturday, May 9, 2015

Faith: A Different Paradigm

Some time ago as I was driving, I saw a sign at a church, advertising an event or a symposium of some sort titled, “I Believe: Evidences of God’s Existence.”  Seeing this sign made me remember a couple of conversations I have had in recent years with a couple of atheist friends, who asserted that there is no proof that God exists.

And, believe it or not, I actually agree with my atheist friends on this point.  From a scientific, secular point of view, there is no proof that God exists.  I have on occasion imagined myself in an alternate universe in which I was not born into a Latter-day Saint family or even a religious family: would I believe all the fantastic claims my church teaches?  A virgin giving birth to the Son of God who atoned for the sins of mankind?  Heaven, angels, prophets, visions, healings, gold plates, resurrection, life after death, parting of the Red Sea?  (To name just a few.)  The me in the alternate universe just isn’t buying it.  But maybe I’m not giving enough credit to the grace of God, that would eventually help me to find Him.  At any rate, I sympathize with anybody who finds religion to be a difficult pill to swallow.  

And yet…

There is a different paradigm.  The paradigm that says that we must exercise faith, choosing to believe, and then we will see.  We must believe that God exists, and then we will see proof of God’s existence through the Holy Ghost.  “Faith is things which are hoped for and not seen; wherefore, dispute not because ye see not, for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith.”[i] And I’m here to tell you, there have been times when I thought my doubts would swallow up my faith, but as I have exercised faith and taken steps into the unknown, I have had experiences with God that give me evidence of his existence and his love for me.[ii]

We also learn about the blessings of exercising faith from the resurrected Christ’s teachings to Thomas, who had to see the risen Lord before he would believe: “Thomas, because thou hast seen me, thou hast believed: blessed are they that have not seen, and yet have believed.”[iii]   

So how does one begin to exercise faith, even if one has had little or no religious upbringing or spiritual experiences?  In the Book of Mormon, there is a metaphor that I like, comparing the exercise of faith to planting a seed.  I invite you to read the entire metaphor here, beginning in verse 26 until the end of the chapter, but for those that do not follow the link to read it, here are the highlights:
  • We “plant a seed” of faith within us by exercising a “particle of faith,” even if the particle of faith is nothing more than a desire to believe.
  • If it is a good seed, it will begin to grow, which we recognize because it begins to “enlarge [our] soul[s]” and “enlighten [our] understanding.”  This is the Holy Spirit working within us.
  • As it begins to grow, we have to nourish the seed with “great care” so that the plant takes root within us and continues to grow and provide delicious fruit.
  • “But if ye neglect the tree, and take no thought for its nourishment, behold it will not get any root; and when the heat of the sun cometh and scorcheth it, because it hath no root it withers away…Now, this is not because the seed was not good, neither is it because the fruit thereof would not be desirable; but it is because your ground is barren, and ye will not nourish the tree, therefore ye cannot have the fruit thereof.”
  • And, finally, this promise: “But if ye will nourish the word, yea, nourish the tree as it beginneth to grow, by your faith with great diligence, and with patience, looking forward to the fruit thereof, it shall take root; and behold it shall be a tree springing up unto everlasting life. And because of your diligence and your faith and your patience with the word in nourishing it, that it may take root in you, behold, by and by ye shall pluck the fruit thereof, which is most precious, which is sweet above all that is sweet, and which is white above all that is white, yea, and pure above all that is pure; and ye shall feast upon this fruit even until ye are filled, that ye hunger not, neither shall ye thirst.”
This metaphor rang true to me as a teenager when my faith was beginning to “take root.”  And now in my adult years, I have gained more experience to understand more fully the work and patience involved in developing and maintaining faith and knowledge of spiritual things.

Regarding patience and part of the purpose of why the development of faith requires patience, I’m going to pass along some wisdom I stumbled upon by a man who goes by the name of “Bill” online. (I’ve never met you, Bill, but I thank you for sharing these insights.)  I found this in a comment to a blog post.[iv]

“[W]e live in a day when answers are immediate. You google something and you get thousands of answers in milliseconds. Now, the veracity of such answers is dubious, but it’s the instant gratification that [we relish]. And it’s therefore difficult to have to endure periods of just plain old not knowing….

[T]here is a difference between google and God. Google (the search engine) does not want a relationship with you. They’re great folks, to be sure, but the search engine is just a series of algorithms that produce results based on certain input. They’re really more interested in our pocket book than anything else, and not really interested in us as people at all.

This is very different from what God wants. God wants us to develop a relationship with Him. To seek Him. To expand our souls. To refine ourselves. To develop patience and faith and love. And that can be frustrating ... But it doesn’t mean He loves us any less. Just that He works in His own way.

I [note] that there’s a difference between doubt and faith. Doubt asks a question assuming there is no answer, or that the answer will not/can not ever be known. Faith assumes there is an answer, and that if one is patient, diligent, and worthy, eventually the answer will be made known. Doubt is rooted in fear, distrust, and apathy; faith is rooted in hope, patience, belief, and love. Doubt looks to the ground in dismay; faith looks to God in confidence. Questioning is healthy. It is the only way to get answers. And I can think of no more frequently repeated injunction in the scriptures than to ‘ask, seek, and knock.’”

Whether you have not yet planted the seed of faith, or whether you have a thriving tree of faith that you are nourishing, my invitation (to myself included!) is to take the next steps in developing faith.  Plant the seed, even if it begins with just a desire to believe.  Re-plant the seed if you have lost faith that you once had.  Nourish the seed through prayer, study of the scriptures, church attendance, and service to those around you.  It can be a difficult process, particularly at the beginning, but as I have exercised my faith, I have seen evidences of God’s hand in my life.  I know He is there for me and for you.  He just asks us to come to Him in faith.   
 


[ii] In a recent conversation with a friend who is going through a faith crisis, he expressed concerns that this paradigm is self-fulfilling.  In other words, he thought that as you fill your life with “faith promoting” activities, you are undoubtedly going to feel that those things are good and true.  I readily acknowledge that there has to be a “buy-in” to the paradigm of faith.  That is the essence of faith: a step into the darkness.  But my experience has been that as I have taken this step, this buy-in to the paradigm, I have experienced more undeniable manifestations of God’s hand in my life.  This buy-in begins with a desire to believe, as discussed further in this post.
[iv] I found this in a comment to a blog post entitled "Doubt" on a blog called Mormon Iconoclast, found here.

1 comment:

  1. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Very insightful.

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